5 Things Every Good Girl Can Learn From Porn

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Even if you don’t watch porn yourself, these are the tips from top pornstars videos that every woman needs to know.

Sure, you may have heard that also guys want a pornstar in the bedroom. “Saint in the streets, pornstar in the sheets” is just as unrealistic as it is ridiculous. Despite the fact that a ton of guys (and girls mind you) watch a ton of porn- that doesn’t necessarily mean that’s what they actually want in bed- but just because they’re not looking for the entire show, it doesn’t mean you should throw the pornstar out with the bath water.

Check out any of the Top Pornstar’s Videos, and you’ll see some pretty crazy stuff- from step moms getting dirty with their step sons, to uncomfortably horny pizza delivery guys. But look beyond that oily veneer of smut, and you’re likely to see some pretty epic sex tips that even good girls can go by.

Consider Toys

Despite us being well into the 21st century, adult sex toys are still sometimes looked at as scandalous. The reality is that simple sex toys don’t necessarily ‘spice up” your sex life, but genuinely facilitate better and more enjoyable sex. Using vibrators to help get you in the mood provide sensations that not even the most talented partner could provide. Things like lubricants aren’t just for making smoother love, but also can help protect both you and your partner from industry or STIs. Even toys for him, that are sometimes a bit intimidating can become delightfully commonplace. Cock rings are especially useful for those of us that are a little quick on the trigger. The bottom line is you don’t have to go all out fabricating a dungeon, when a simple bullet will more than suffice.

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Get Tested

Pornstars get tested for STIs and STDs all the time. And more than that, they openly share their results with their co-stars. This is more than just a safety standard of the industry, but a massive sign of respect amongst the actors. Getting tested regularly, especially if you have multiple partners isn’t just a good idea- it’s a must. Sure, it can feel a bit awkward walking into your doctor’s office or a planned parenthood, asking for an STD test, but it’s absolutely worth it to protect your health, and the health of future and current partners. Pornstars have helped to normalize testing, and start a conversation about routine testing, bringing the topic more mainstream. Which is definitely something we should all learn.

Use Protection

While not every top pornstars video uses protection, you’ll find that most of them do. And of the ones that do use protection, many of them can offer some pretty sexy ideas with how to apply things like condoms and dental dams. Aside from acting out a way more believable sexnario than your high school teacher and the cucumber, pornstars are using their screen time to make protection way more acceptable in modern day culture. So this, coupled with their continued promotion of testing, makes them pioneers of health as well as lusty ladies and gents.

Speak Up

It’s pretty obvious that pornstars get vocal… probably even more vocal than most normal people would ever be- but pornographies also show what it’s like to have a continued dialogue during sex. Which can be just as hot as it is gratifying. Speaking up about what turns you on, what feels nice, and what kind of sex you’re interested in having is a huge part of building enduring sexual chemistry, so don’t be afraid to own your sexuality. Having sex is a super intimate experience, so you should be able to trust your partner to give you space and respect your thoughts and feelings. Even if that means wanting to try something you saw on your favorite porno.

Get Weird

If pornstars know how to do anything- it’s that they know how to let their freak flag fly! And my, do those guys and gals fly that flag with pride. Pornstars are the unsung heroes of creative, inventive, and sometimes- weird- sex. Of course, they are actors and they may not always be as into it as they seem, but having the gumption to get in front of a camera and try out things the rest of us have only heard about in locker rooms deserves some respect. Of course, all of the actors in top pornstars videos are consenting adults, so they are fully aware of the positions they will be in before the camera starts rolling. Another epic thing that pornstars don’t seem to be afraid of is public opinion- from the clothes they wear, to the work they do, many pornstars are happy to show the world who they are and are even more happy to own it.